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Domestic Violence Defense

Felony Domestic Violence Defense Lawyer

A domestic violence arrest can upend your life overnight, and when the charge is a felony, prison time is on the table. A no-contact order may bar you from your home and children before your case even begins. Kimberly Exe has represented hundreds of people accused of domestic violence through thorough investigations, negotiations and jury trials.

  • No-contact order hearings
  • Felony DV jury trial experience
  • Free consultation

What Counts as Domestic Violence in Washington

Washington does not have a single crime called “domestic violence.” Instead, under RCW 10.99.020, a domestic violence designation attaches to an underlying crime, such as assault, harassment or malicious mischief, when the alleged victim is a family or household member or an intimate partner.

That includes current and former spouses and dating partners, people who have a child in common, parents, children and other relatives, and adults who live or have lived together. The DV designation does not change the maximum penalty for the underlying crime, but it brings mandatory arrest rules, no-contact orders and serious collateral consequences.

Mandatory Arrest and No-Contact Orders

Under RCW 10.31.100, police must arrest an adult when they have probable cause to believe that person assaulted a family or household member within the previous four hours. As a result, many DV cases begin with an arrest and a night in jail, even when the alleged victim did not want anyone arrested.

At the first court appearance, the judge will almost always issue a criminal no-contact order under RCW 10.99.040. The order can bar you from your home, from contacting your partner, and sometimes from contacting your children. It applies even if the protected person wants contact, and violating it is a separate crime.

The alleged victim cannot “drop the charges”

Only the prosecutor decides whether to file or dismiss a domestic violence case. Contacting the protected person in violation of an order, even at their request, can lead to new charges. Your attorney can ask the court to modify or lift the order.

Domestic Violence Charges Kimberly Exe Defends

  • Felony Assault (DV)First- through third-degree assault, including assault with a deadly weapon
  • StrangulationSecond-degree assault by strangulation or suffocation, a class B felony
  • Felony HarassmentThreats to kill and other harassment charged as a felony
  • Felony No-Contact Order ViolationsViolations involving an assault, or after two prior violations, which are class C felonies
  • Burglary and Unlawful ImprisonmentResidential burglary, kidnapping and unlawful imprisonment in a domestic setting
  • Felony Malicious Mischief (DV)First- and second-degree property damage in a domestic setting
  • Felony StalkingStalking allegations, including stalking in violation of a protection order
  • Child and Elder AbuseAllegations involving children or vulnerable adults in the home

Felony DV convictions are sentenced under Washington’s felony sentencing rules, and prior domestic violence history can raise the offender score.

Consequences of a Domestic Violence Conviction

A DV conviction often carries consequences well beyond the sentence itself:

  • Prison time for many felony DV offenses, with prior domestic violence history counting more heavily toward the sentence
  • Loss of firearm rights under both Washington and federal law
  • State-certified domestic violence intervention treatment, probation and long-term no-contact orders
  • Immigration consequences, because crimes of domestic violence are a ground for deportation. See immigration consequences of criminal charges
  • Effects on parenting plans and family law proceedings

Defending a Domestic Violence Case

Domestic violence cases are often built on a single 911 call, a brief police investigation and statements made in a moment of crisis. A thorough defense investigation can change the picture. It examines:

  • 911 recordings, body-worn camera video, photographs and medical records
  • Text messages, social media and other communications that provide context
  • Witnesses police did not interview, and evidence of self-defense or defense of others
  • Whether the alleged victim’s out-of-court statements are admissible if they do not testify, because the Confrontation Clause limits what prosecutors can use

Where appropriate, Kimberly negotiates for dismissals, reductions from felony to misdemeanor charges, removal of the DV designation and sentences that avoid prison. When a case should be tried, she is prepared to try it.

Domestic Violence Defense FAQs

Can the alleged victim drop domestic violence charges?

No. In Washington, the prosecutor controls the decision to file and dismiss charges. The alleged victim’s wishes are considered, but they do not decide whether the case continues.

Can a no-contact order be lifted?

Yes. Your attorney can file a motion asking the court to modify or terminate the order, and the protected person can also make that request. Until the court changes it, the order must be followed exactly as written.

Will a DV conviction affect my right to own a gun?

Yes. Any felony conviction, and many domestic violence convictions of any level, prohibit firearm possession under Washington and federal law. Courts may also order you to surrender firearms while a case or order is pending.

Can a felony DV charge be reduced to a misdemeanor?

Sometimes. Depending on the evidence, any injuries and your history, a felony assault or harassment charge may be negotiated down to a gross misdemeanor, or the DV designation may be removed. Either can sharply reduce the sentencing, firearm and immigration consequences.

What if I acted in self-defense?

Self-defense is a complete defense in Washington. If the evidence shows you used lawful force, the State must disprove self-defense beyond a reasonable doubt.

This page provides general information about Washington law. It is not legal advice, and laws change. Contact the office to discuss the specific facts of your case.

Facing Felony Charges in King or Snohomish County?

Talk with Kimberly Exe about your case. The initial consultation is free, takes about an hour, and can be held by phone or in person.

Call 206-661-4694